Here is my story today:
Sometimes, in life, you attempt at dating, and let's face the facts: you hit a lot of dead ends, and it becomes boring, and later you realize; I am better off by myself. I am independent and can get everything done better by myself faster without a ball and chain.
But as you go through your years of struggling with everyday functioning, you find you miss telling someone about the bad night you had, or the nightmare you had, etc. you also miss the movie partner you had, that you could watch any movie with and they wouldn't judge you when you spilt the popcorn because you were scared out of your pantaloons. But you continue to stay strong because you are a independent person. And it gets better. You develop a friendship with your guy/girlfriend, who you find, is so comfortable to be around, even though they have a girlfriend or boyfriend.
You guys become best friends, and you start to realize how much you guys have in common ; music, gaming, dancing, being "old souls", hobbies, etc. you're practically kindred spirits. Does it bring you closer as friends or more? You're confused, because they are so comfortable around you with their S.O around and you don't know how to act. GIVE ME A SIGN!
Frustration setting in: you decided to take the friend route, because you three, (your best friend and their significant other) are all great friends, and you do not want to ruin anything, plus, you're independent! Why have a ball and chain?!
Why am I talking about this? Because this might be a situation I went through or am going through. I'm here to say, keep the best friend, because once the "friendzone" is gone, If something goes wrong, there's no possible way to go back.
Hang in there, friend.
Sincerely,
Dazed and Confused
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